Life As I Make It.....by Kata

I am hurting again. Met this guy online and thought he was different. I liked him so much, and even came to the point of falling for him. He was perfect for me. He had all the qualities I am looking for a man. He was everything.I get excited each time he rings my phone. I look forward to our chat, and hear his voice. He was smart, right age, sounded like a very nice person. I don't know, I fell for him quick, but he didn't know. He made me happy. He never failed to make my day. He became my inspiration. He was a perfect man for me. But my fantasy didn't last long. One day I gave a wrong answer to his question and never heard from him again. Tried to contact him, leave a message online and phone but didn't get any answer. I got the message. I failed again. But at least the HURTING wasn't so bad.....because we started not too long ago and ended it very soon.
I thought my Prince have found me and my fairy was about to happen, but I was wrong.
Well, I guess I never learned my lesson.....too bad.

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Sometimes it's easy to become so goal-oriented and so focused on our dreams that we overlook the simple things that we should be enjoying in our everyday life. But we have to remember that life is not really about the destination, it's about how we live all along the way. It's about the path we're on that shines brighter and brighter.

In this life, there is no such thing as a finish line. Once you accomplish one dream, God will give you another. When you overcome one challenge, there will be another. There is always another mountain to climb. If we make the mistake of just living for the destination, we'll look up one day and realize we've missed out on the biggest part of life because most of life is routine. Most of us get up every morning, go to work, come home, eat dinner, go to bed and do it again. There are very few mountaintops where you graduate from school, or you get married, or have a child, or go on vacation. The high times are few and far between. Don't get stuck living for the mountaintops. Learn to enjoy the path you're on. Learn to enjoy the people in your life. Learn to enjoy the simple blessings of walking in the path the Lord has prepared for you.

Life can be full of ups and downs, twists and turns. We've all had to face challenges and difficulties. But did you know that everything you've been through up until now is getting you prepared for what God is going to do in your future? Nothing in your life has been wasted. Every disappointment, every setback, every person that did you wrong, every lonely night, God is going to turn around and use for your good!

During the difficult times, we grow and mature. That's when our faith is stretched and our character is developed. God didn't send that hardship, but He'll use it to get you prepared for your next step. Those adversities will help make you and mold you into the person you are called to be.

You may be experiencing tough times today, but remember, nothing is ever wasted. Have the attitude that says, "This is a new day. Things are shifting in my favor. This difficulty is not going to stop me. It's going to promote me. It was meant to bring me down, but I know the truth; God is going to use it to lift me up and lead me into victory all the days of my life."

It was almost 2pm and still wasn't done doing my erands. Had to rush because my son will be dropped home at 2:40. There's no way I could make it if I don't put more speed. The limit was 30 and I was running 47. I knew that spot was a police hideout but I was hoping I won't get caught. Just before I finished my prayer I heard a siren and as I looked at the side mirror, the police car was already behind me. Officer Lutz got me. But since it was my first time, I got a reduction, and was charged only $150. Wonder how much it could have cost me if it was not reduced.....hmmmmmmm. My son got home 5 minutes ahead of me. Lucky didn't get in trouble. Learned my lesson. Next time, do erands earlier.

I looked at myself in the mirror few days ago and realized it's not me anymore. From last year's court stress, work  plus the holiday season, made me gain so much weight. I used to weigh just 90 lbs., the gained 30 lbs. wich is ok, made me look better. But gaining another 30 lbs. is just unacceptable, I look horrible. Just can't believe I have neglected myself. That day I pointed at my reflection and promised myself 4-6 weeks to get that old figure back. It is winter reason why i could not go jogging or go to gym because of my kids soooooo, today I got my Pro-Ab Circle to help me out....yeyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!! We'll see how this one works. Wish me luck!

When you wake up in the morning, do you expect the goodness of God in your life? Do you set the tone for success, favor, and blessing? We're in the second month of the new year and we're not only beginning a new year, but we're beginning a new decade. This last decade may have had some hardships, some difficulties but it's time to set the tone for a new season.


The Scripture tells us that the darker it gets in the world the brighter it’s going to be for God's people. Things may be bad all around you, people may be negative, complaining, and discouraged but don't let that spirit rub off on you. The worse it gets, the brighter you're going to shine. Be determined to set the tone for the new decade by praising God and speaking words of faith over your future. As you do, you'll enlarge your vision and make room for God to do amazing things in every area of your life!

PRAYER:

Father in Heaven, I choose to bless you at all times. I choose to set the tone to receive your favor, grace and mercy. Thank you for your faithfulness to me at all times! In Jesus' Name. Amen!